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He's Just Not Your Type, and That's a Good Thing

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We've all been there. You meet someone new, you start dating, and everything seems perfect. But after a few weeks or months, you realize that you're just not that into him. He's not your type.

And that's okay. In fact, it's a good thing.

He's Just Not Your Type (And That's A Good Thing): How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It

by Andrea Syrtash

4.2 out of 5

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When you're not with the right person, it can be hard to see it. You may be blinded by your initial attraction, or you may be afraid of being alone. But if you listen to your gut, you'll eventually realize that he's just not your type.

And that's a good thing. Because when you're with the right person, you'll know it. You'll feel happy, safe, and loved. You'll be able to be yourself around him, and you'll never have to pretend to be someone you're not.

So if you're dating someone who's not your type, don't be afraid to end it. It's not worth wasting your time on someone who's not right for you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy.

Here are a few signs that he's just not your type:

You don't feel a strong connection with him.
You're not attracted to him physically or emotionally.
You don't share the same values or interests.
You're always arguing or disagreeing.
He doesn't make you feel good about yourself.
You're not happy when you're with him.
You're afraid of being alone.

If you're experiencing any of these signs, it's a good idea to take a step back and reassess your relationship. It's possible that he's just not your type. And that's okay.

There are plenty of other fish in the sea. And when you find the right one, you'll know it.

Additional tips for dealing with a "not your type" relationship:

Be honest with yourself. The first step is to admit that you're not feeling it. Don't try to force yourself to be attracted to someone who you're not.
Talk to him about it. If you're comfortable, you can try talking to him about your concerns. Be honest and respectful, and let him know that you're just not feeling the chemistry.
End it. If you've tried talking to him and things don't improve, it may be time to end the relationship. It's not easy, but it's better to do it sooner rather than later.
Don't give up. Just because you haven't found the right one yet doesn't mean that you never will. Keep dating and keep your heart open. The right person will come along eventually.

Dating can be tough, but it's important to remember that you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy. If you're not feeling it, don't be afraid to move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.

And when you do find the right one, you'll know it.

He's Just Not Your Type (And That's A Good Thing): How to Find Love Where You Least Expect It

by Andrea Syrtash

4.2 out of 5